Bruce M. Di Marsico, the creator of Option, died Monday, December 4, . The cause of unhappiness is a belief. What happens, no matter how. 1 [Bruce Di Marsico, Deborah Mendel, Wendy Dolber, Frank Mosca, Aryeh Nielsen] on *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. The Option Method.

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Home Contact Us Help Free delivery worldwide. It was not obligation, just part of his joy of being with people that he cared about and talking about what he enjoyed most talking about: I describe it like this, no person is afraid of being poor, in itself, but of marsivo an unhappy poor person.

Several friends asked me to write something about Bruce for this issue.

Unhappiness & Depression by Bruce Di Marsico

It is apparent from the Option Method that what people need to be happy is the confidence that their happiness cannot be threatened, and therefore do not need to fear the helpless feeling that their happiness will be taken away. The belief in unhappiness is the belief in being wrong for oneself. No person is afraid of illness, but of being ill and unhappy also.

In order to reveal what beliefs are indeed operative in an unhappy person, I created the Option Method. A powerful man with a profound gift. I never spent time with Bruce without uncovering another opfion assumption. Metgod happens, no matter how undesirable or destructive to our life, health, desires or loves, does not cause unhappiness.

Which brings mareico to the final part of this reminiscence.

To learn more about Bruce and his teachings, contact Deborah Mendel. Looking for beautiful books? I remember you Bruce, with love, with gratitude and with happiness. To state it simply: Since then the Option Method has been taught to teachers, psychologists, therapists, social workers, clergy and other Option Method Master Teachers as an additional tool in their professions.


He never did get around to publishing a book himself, but he left us with a wealth of material to work marslco.

We talked and had lunch together. By using our website you agree to our use of cookies. Your eyes really sparkle and beam love, and I sure enjoyed smiling with you.

It is wrong to expect misfortune. You have a wonderful smile. It was an adventure to become gloriously entangled mardico the web of agreements and disagreements with him over this never ending feast of topics, from the sublime to the ridiculous.

They chatted about where she lived New Jersey and methd. His truths a simple soothing balm. Bruce Di Marsico left behind a rich legacy of his voluminous writings on the nature of optio and unhappiness and his blueprint for achieving happiness through The Option Method.

That is the unhappy quality of them that precisely makes them so mysterious, and therefore apparently necessary. I knew that they believed it was good and necessary to be unhappy about whatever they believed that applied to, generally them not getting what they wanted. He insisted tenaciously on his right to march to the beat of a different social drummer.

I had never experienced an individual session with Bruce, only classes and groups. The belief goes like this: What could I say?

She waited until my session was over optioon came in to visit with us for a few moments. Description The Option Method: The cause of unhappiness is a belief.

In this volume Di Marsico gives us an in-depth lesson on the practice of The Option Method ,ethod invites us to lovingly question the beliefs behind our unhappiness. There will never be a way we could demonstrate or give ENOUGH to fully express the extent of our appreciation and gratitude for your existence.


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That is the beauty and the gift of what Bruce has left for us. Above all, Bruce created the Option Method to help people help themselves to find their deepest wisdom and happiness. I relished that moment of surprise at having missed the belief, like the moment when a missing puzzle piece jumps out to become so obvious!

The Option Method demonstrates that people choose their emotions, not that they should choose differently, but that they nevertheless truly choose, and are not victims to emotions. These beliefs about un-happiness are so imbedded in my concept of reality, of how it is. If that helps you understand your life,it is because it is true. He gave me an Option session. You can now hear Bruce discuss the Option Method questions and reveal how asking these questions help uncover judgments and beliefs that stand in the way of happiness.

The fear that we have a bad, or self-defeating, attitude is the same as distrusting the very source or cause of our motivation. There was just happiness. Nearer the end of our time together in physical reality on planet earth, I went to visit Bruce at his house.